/r/dating - top ten submissions for each month of 2026

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2026, July
As a man it’s fair for women to want financial ...
993 As a man it’s fair for women to want financial ...
Women just stare into your soul when they like you
820 Women just stare into your soul when they like you
Men who just want to be husbands
618 Men who just want to be husbands
I always thought I was fine with 50/50
501 I always thought I was fine with 50/50
I had a 15-hour first date and now I don't know...
478 I had a 15-hour first date and now I don't know...
His kiss didn’t scare me (?!)
374 His kiss didn’t scare me (?!)
Dating apps are full of people that just got ou...
356 Dating apps are full of people that just got ou...
Why do guys just SAY stuff
342 Why do guys just SAY stuff
Do some of y'all actually expect someone to sti...
321 Do some of y'all actually expect someone to sti...
How is everyone finding so many people that lik...
305 How is everyone finding so many people that lik...
2026, June
Dear future boyfriend ??
1856 Dear future boyfriend ??
The 8 billion people argument is really getting...
1046 The 8 billion people argument is really getting...
She pulled out a cigarette on our third date, a...
928 She pulled out a cigarette on our third date, a...
I did a lil.. experiment and I have a lil sympa...
862 I did a lil.. experiment and I have a lil sympa...
What’s the fastest you’ve cut off / noped out o...
614 What’s the fastest you’ve cut off / noped out o...
Here’s the biggest lie dating apps sold us.
528 Here’s the biggest lie dating apps sold us.
So a woman cut off an fwb for me, but... it was...
403 So a woman cut off an fwb for me, but... it was...
I was on hinge for 8 months. 3 dates a week - h...
347 I was on hinge for 8 months. 3 dates a week - h...
There's nothing wrong if you don't want somethi...
297 There's nothing wrong if you don't want somethi...
Deleting tinder. I don't know the name of the g...
282 Deleting tinder. I don't know the name of the g...
2026, May
Why can't we just normalize the importance of s...
1307 Why can't we just normalize the importance of s...
Is anyone out there actually dating and getting...
1159 Is anyone out there actually dating and getting...
It's frustrating being a sexually conservative ...
712 It's frustrating being a sexually conservative ...
"She was in love with you!" While still sleepin...
639 "She was in love with you!" While still sleepin...
Tired of the unrealistic "spark" expectations o...
628 Tired of the unrealistic "spark" expectations o...
Found me a baddie??
538 Found me a baddie??
Truth
496 Truth
Can we unpack the “slightly autistic women” tre...
492 Can we unpack the “slightly autistic women” tre...
What’s a Dating Lesson You Learned the Hard Way?
462 What’s a Dating Lesson You Learned the Hard Way?
I read the signs, I asked for permission first,...
349 I read the signs, I asked for permission first,...
2026, April
Having a boyfriend seems like a chore
1462 Having a boyfriend seems like a chore
Your person is so close, I promise you. This is...
1229 Your person is so close, I promise you. This is...
I think women being the first to make a move ju...
982 I think women being the first to make a move ju...
Women of this sub, how quickly does your mind g...
713 Women of this sub, how quickly does your mind g...
My experience as a woman on dating apps
705 My experience as a woman on dating apps
I’m tired of being almost loved.
608 I’m tired of being almost loved.
Are people just becoming more stupid?
462 Are people just becoming more stupid?
I don’t understand how people get in relationsh...
434 I don’t understand how people get in relationsh...
Ladies, how do you feel about the "meeting good...
414 Ladies, how do you feel about the "meeting good...
This dude can't figure out why I haven't develo...
406 This dude can't figure out why I haven't develo...
2026, March
My life has been changed forever by this Ethan ...
2111 My life has been changed forever by this Ethan ...
Men seem really interested in me until they rea...
960 Men seem really interested in me until they rea...
Be kind to yourself. A LOT of dating success co...
586 Be kind to yourself. A LOT of dating success co...
Why does modern dating feel like a game of who ...
470 Why does modern dating feel like a game of who ...
New trend with guys?
454 New trend with guys?
Had the best date in months last Saturday, ende...
384 Had the best date in months last Saturday, ende...
It’ll happen when you stop trying is BS
366 It’ll happen when you stop trying is BS
I was told I'm boring because I don't have an o...
349 I was told I'm boring because I don't have an o...
Stood up after confirmation text
327 Stood up after confirmation text
Want for Immediate Romantic Connection/Spark Is...
314 Want for Immediate Romantic Connection/Spark Is...
2026, February
Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave m...
935 Are my dating standards too high? Friend gave m...
Killed the lover girl in me
685 Killed the lover girl in me
Today I successfully approached a woman and ask...
471 Today I successfully approached a woman and ask...
Just say that.
350 Just say that.
Stay guarded
289 Stay guarded
I want to give up so bad.
255 I want to give up so bad.
How does everyone find so many people to date?
255 How does everyone find so many people to date?
Crashing out over a bumble match
228 Crashing out over a bumble match
To single parents who ignore "Childfree" filter...
176 To single parents who ignore "Childfree" filter...
How often would you like to see someone you're ...
165 How often would you like to see someone you're ...
2026, January
I’ve made peace with the idea that a relationsh...
487 I’ve made peace with the idea that a relationsh...
The narrative that someone who has never had a ...
361 The narrative that someone who has never had a ...
Women who have had sex without feelings, how ha...
291 Women who have had sex without feelings, how ha...
Is it reasonable to want to date somebody with ...
281 Is it reasonable to want to date somebody with ...
I walked away from someone who wasn’t sure abou...
254 I walked away from someone who wasn’t sure abou...
Can you date someone you dont find so atractive...
251 Can you date someone you dont find so atractive...
if you cant have a direct conversation with som...
250 if you cant have a direct conversation with som...
Don't sleep on a slow burn + other important le...
245 Don't sleep on a slow burn + other important le...
Is it common for people on dating apps to alway...
218 Is it common for people on dating apps to alway...
I had a life reflection from a hinge match (am ...
212 I had a life reflection from a hinge match (am ...