/r/dating_advice - top ten submissions for each month of 2023

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2023, December
She hooked up with FWB on the same days we went...
1449 She hooked up with FWB on the same days we went...
Girl who is a cashier is now paying for my stuf...
837 Girl who is a cashier is now paying for my stuf...
Advice for single men: a woman’s perspective
724 Advice for single men: a woman’s perspective
He denied my request to be exclusive after thre...
665 He denied my request to be exclusive after thre...
Has anyone else met a guy with this mindset?
645 Has anyone else met a guy with this mindset?
Any recommendations for dating apps?
574 Any recommendations for dating apps?
Every man I meet is love bombing on the first d...
534 Every man I meet is love bombing on the first d...
A guy I’ve been seeing just told me he had sex ...
507 A guy I’ve been seeing just told me he had sex ...
Everyone loses interest when I bring up my career.
509 Everyone loses interest when I bring up my career.
Why is there such a focus on hobbies in modern ...
474 Why is there such a focus on hobbies in modern ...
2023, November
Inexperienced guys can make great boyfriends
1706 Inexperienced guys can make great boyfriends
Went on a first date. She said that porno brain...
1280 Went on a first date. She said that porno brain...
Girl that I was dating gave me a (curable) STD.
893 Girl that I was dating gave me a (curable) STD.
Girls of Reddit, what are some green flags that...
625 Girls of Reddit, what are some green flags that...
Is lack of ambition a turn off for men?
575 Is lack of ambition a turn off for men?
Update to the best first date and guy who delet...
569 Update to the best first date and guy who delet...
If a girl(25F) you started dating asked you to ...
509 If a girl(25F) you started dating asked you to ...
SPIT IN MOUTH
484 SPIT IN MOUTH
Why do guys always seem to rush into having sex ?
477 Why do guys always seem to rush into having sex ?
I’m rejected for having genital herpes and be...
424 I’m rejected for having genital herpes and be...
2023, October
I cold approached a girl... and it worked!!!
2122 I cold approached a girl... and it worked!!!
How do I politely tell my friend she's a moped?
1234 How do I politely tell my friend she's a moped?
I HATE dating as an Asian women in West
1148 I HATE dating as an Asian women in West
Is it weird that he keeps bringing up that I'm ...
1018 Is it weird that he keeps bringing up that I'm ...
Girlfriend had sex when we were broken up for a...
914 Girlfriend had sex when we were broken up for a...
Broke my date's jaw
741 Broke my date's jaw
For the Single Guys: Is there such a thing as a...
664 For the Single Guys: Is there such a thing as a...
I fucked up and now she thinks she is fat
654 I fucked up and now she thinks she is fat
I dont smoke. All guys seem to smoke weed these...
599 I dont smoke. All guys seem to smoke weed these...
Men, how long are you willing to wait to have sex?
589 Men, how long are you willing to wait to have sex?
2023, September
Guys, don't make sex jokes on a 1st date
905 Guys, don't make sex jokes on a 1st date
Grabbed my boob on the first date, said he “m...
882 Grabbed my boob on the first date, said he “m...
Where are y’all finding men who actually want...
804 Where are y’all finding men who actually want...
Saw my ex girlfriend after 10 years this weeken...
756 Saw my ex girlfriend after 10 years this weeken...
I cut it off after 4 dates but kinda regret it
697 I cut it off after 4 dates but kinda regret it
Is dating in your 20's just a very long waiting...
681 Is dating in your 20's just a very long waiting...
He told me he had me in his phone as “great b...
671 He told me he had me in his phone as “great b...
Girlfriend went through all of my messages whil...
659 Girlfriend went through all of my messages whil...
Boobs Brushing
625 Boobs Brushing
if you're not into fat/chubby girls, please jus...
611 if you're not into fat/chubby girls, please jus...
2023, August
Booked a $500 dollar flight to NYC to see a gir...
3482 Booked a $500 dollar flight to NYC to see a gir...
Got hurt while lurking. Not sure how to respond.
1636 Got hurt while lurking. Not sure how to respond.
What is up with guys who go on dates with new g...
1538 What is up with guys who go on dates with new g...
This girl is everything I want buuut… I’m n...
1241 This girl is everything I want buuut… I’m n...
Ghosted after sex on first date
1040 Ghosted after sex on first date
Girl is attracted to me because I’m a “hone...
986 Girl is attracted to me because I’m a “hone...
is not driving a big turnoff for women ?
972 is not driving a big turnoff for women ?
What does a woman really mean when she had fun ...
935 What does a woman really mean when she had fun ...
My neighbor was locked out of her house and I h...
760 My neighbor was locked out of her house and I h...
I didn’t tell her I was a virgin
733 I didn’t tell her I was a virgin
2023, July
Guy told me I was unattractive when naked
2643 Guy told me I was unattractive when naked
People are way too nonchalant about sending nudes
1826 People are way too nonchalant about sending nudes
I can't compete with these young, filtered, IG ...
1304 I can't compete with these young, filtered, IG ...
Date someone who, rather than acting like a chi...
1305 Date someone who, rather than acting like a chi...
Was I wrong for this?
1109 Was I wrong for this?
How do you guys date in the US?
1048 How do you guys date in the US?
Think I delayed sex too much
1010 Think I delayed sex too much
Did I do the right thing by giving an ultimatum...
953 Did I do the right thing by giving an ultimatum...
While y’all are figuring out how to date, cou...
895 While y’all are figuring out how to date, cou...
Crocs on first date
852 Crocs on first date
2023, June
I asked a guy out...and here's the story.
1711 I asked a guy out...and here's the story.
Should i wait for a guy to text me after my fir...
1300 Should i wait for a guy to text me after my fir...
Is a girl having a Only fans a turn off for any...
1254 Is a girl having a Only fans a turn off for any...
Is it a red flag for girls to scroll through yo...
1248 Is it a red flag for girls to scroll through yo...
I (25M) dumped my ex (25F) over a tweet, don't ...
1105 I (25M) dumped my ex (25F) over a tweet, don't ...
Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore w...
1099 Would you date a girl with a buzzcut who wore w...
Showed my vulnerable side, and got ridiculed fo...
1047 Showed my vulnerable side, and got ridiculed fo...
As a man, please put when you have kids
1007 As a man, please put when you have kids
If you are going to lash out after getting reje...
1000 If you are going to lash out after getting reje...
Tinder date tells me how to dress
850 Tinder date tells me how to dress
2023, May
Guys profile says 23, we have been dating for s...
2491 Guys profile says 23, we have been dating for s...
Gf(21F) thought it would be funny to text me fr...
2267 Gf(21F) thought it would be funny to text me fr...
how to cancel a date with a confirmed rapist
1622 how to cancel a date with a confirmed rapist
Stop using bumble if you can’t use it right
1580 Stop using bumble if you can’t use it right
How to tell her I'm a virgin?
1434 How to tell her I'm a virgin?
Why do some men become jaded after a heartbreak...
1323 Why do some men become jaded after a heartbreak...
Randomly dumped by GF after 9 years
1219 Randomly dumped by GF after 9 years
A girl send me her nudes because she feels sexy
1172 A girl send me her nudes because she feels sexy
Please tell me I'm not alone. Everyone my age i...
1106 Please tell me I'm not alone. Everyone my age i...
How do you even meet someone nowadays?
1097 How do you even meet someone nowadays?
2023, April
The guy I’m dating asked me for $20 and now I...
2596 The guy I’m dating asked me for $20 and now I...
What kind of first date offer is this 😐
1878 What kind of first date offer is this 😐
I (33m) don't drink. Is it weird to ask a woman...
1673 I (33m) don't drink. Is it weird to ask a woman...
Why does every girl just assume I only want sex?
1577 Why does every girl just assume I only want sex?
Saw a text I wish I hadnt
1520 Saw a text I wish I hadnt
After 2 dates she sent me this. This is the sec...
1480 After 2 dates she sent me this. This is the sec...
She sleeps naked next to me. But not dating and...
1432 She sleeps naked next to me. But not dating and...
This guy (23m) I (22f) went on a first date wit...
1298 This guy (23m) I (22f) went on a first date wit...
Girl who rejected me wants to be friends and th...
1284 Girl who rejected me wants to be friends and th...
Is it too much to bake the guy’s favourite de...
1102 Is it too much to bake the guy’s favourite de...
2023, March
Approached my gym crush, rejection never felt s...
3588 Approached my gym crush, rejection never felt s...
Has a guy/girl ever said anything to you *just ...
2344 Has a guy/girl ever said anything to you *just ...
He stuck me with the bill.
2289 He stuck me with the bill.
Asked crush out to get something to eat she sai...
1707 Asked crush out to get something to eat she sai...
How come the majority of advice here is to walk...
1465 How come the majority of advice here is to walk...
My (M22) Girlfriend (F22) made plans with her g...
1321 My (M22) Girlfriend (F22) made plans with her g...
Girl I had superb chemistry with dumps me after...
1262 Girl I had superb chemistry with dumps me after...
(23F) questions about drunken hookup?
1190 (23F) questions about drunken hookup?
Girl said she wasn't interested in dating and w...
1090 Girl said she wasn't interested in dating and w...
Do men like being approached?
1023 Do men like being approached?
2023, February
“Hey it was nice to meet you yesterday. I had...
4299 “Hey it was nice to meet you yesterday. I had...
I got used for sex and I literally want to thro...
2381 I got used for sex and I literally want to thro...
How and when to tell guy that I used to do porn?
1768 How and when to tell guy that I used to do porn?
(20F) In my very limited experience, if a guy/g...
1487 (20F) In my very limited experience, if a guy/g...
No matter how comfortable you might get in a re...
1460 No matter how comfortable you might get in a re...
Boyfriend hid an AirTag in my car and I don’t...
1362 Boyfriend hid an AirTag in my car and I don’t...
19 year old guy showed up with flowers to my jo...
1347 19 year old guy showed up with flowers to my jo...
Told a guy that I've been dating that I've gave...
1202 Told a guy that I've been dating that I've gave...
Am I unreasonable for being annoyed my date ask...
1188 Am I unreasonable for being annoyed my date ask...
"A spouse is not a destination but a fellow tra...
1164 "A spouse is not a destination but a fellow tra...
2023, January
If they like you, you will know. (20F)
3148 If they like you, you will know. (20F)
Compliment your perpetually single friends and ...
2225 Compliment your perpetually single friends and ...
PSA To all girls and/or women asking how to get...
1945 PSA To all girls and/or women asking how to get...
I asked out a girl for the first time. What eve...
1559 I asked out a girl for the first time. What eve...
So my girlfriend suddenly ghosted me and went b...
1519 So my girlfriend suddenly ghosted me and went b...
Please compliment the men that you date.
1469 Please compliment the men that you date.
My classmate wants to cuddle with me, but turns...
1464 My classmate wants to cuddle with me, but turns...
Dating Tip (Mostly For Men) That’s Worked For...
1461 Dating Tip (Mostly For Men) That’s Worked For...
Girl I’m dating [23F] is spending new years w...
1351 Girl I’m dating [23F] is spending new years w...
Never allow someone to be your priority while a...
1290 Never allow someone to be your priority while a...