/r/dating_advice - top ten submissions for each month of 2026

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2026, April

Bartender here — things I've noticed about firs...

3461 Bartender here — things I've noticed about firs...

Men - stop fucking lying about watching porn. W...

2510 Men - stop fucking lying about watching porn. W...

My friend works at Bumble. He told me this.

1692 My friend works at Bumble. He told me this.

I (25F) feel guilty for not wanting to go on a ...

1133 I (25F) feel guilty for not wanting to go on a ...

The Bar is So Low

1046 The Bar is So Low

The dog park meta is real and I think more peop...

1022 The dog park meta is real and I think more peop...

As a woman I want to give you advice: make firs...

856 As a woman I want to give you advice: make firs...

Sometimes it’s your digital footprint

832 Sometimes it’s your digital footprint

I (24F) went on a great date but he (26M) had a...

727 I (24F) went on a great date but he (26M) had a...

Where do I find guys who like anime and video g...

718 Where do I find guys who like anime and video g...

2026, March

My 23F Bf M31 keeps getting made fun of by his ...

941 My 23F Bf M31 keeps getting made fun of by his ...

I am as they say “dating my first baddie”!

807 I am as they say “dating my first baddie”!

If you’re wondering whether somebody likes you…...

760 If you’re wondering whether somebody likes you…...

Warning: My experience with dating coach Pete O...

746 Warning: My experience with dating coach Pete O...

An underrated trait in men I find attractive

714 An underrated trait in men I find attractive

Ladies, what’s the *silliest* reason you broke ...

593 Ladies, what’s the *silliest* reason you broke ...

551 Guy I'm dating masturbates to my dating profile

Is it too much to ask for some basic respect du...

545 Is it too much to ask for some basic respect du...

Should I tell a guy exactly why I don't like him?

540 Should I tell a guy exactly why I don't like him?

Is it too much to ask a man to shower before ha...

534 Is it too much to ask a man to shower before ha...

2026, February

Being horny but emotionally selective is actual...

2073 Being horny but emotionally selective is actual...

I accidentally saw my date's Hinge notification...

1704 I accidentally saw my date's Hinge notification...

(UPDATE) Is my coworker trying to date me?

1415 (UPDATE) Is my coworker trying to date me?

My classmate cuddled me and now I’m catching fe...

1014 My classmate cuddled me and now I’m catching fe...

Crazy dating pool why am attracting these women...

946 Crazy dating pool why am attracting these women...

How do i tell a woman im no longer interested a...

867 How do i tell a woman im no longer interested a...

Literally every single married couple I know is...

863 Literally every single married couple I know is...

He Can’t Read — Is This a Dealbreaker?

792 He Can’t Read — Is This a Dealbreaker?

Guys asking for head.

773 Guys asking for head.

Men, use perfume. Trust me

728 Men, use perfume. Trust me

2026, January

i used to think guys who "shut down" during ser...

2692 i used to think guys who "shut down" during ser...

I want to like him, but he’s worn the same hood...

1333 I want to like him, but he’s worn the same hood...

Got ghosted after setting a boundary

1060 Got ghosted after setting a boundary

Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact

1037 Ex GF texted me (31M)after 8yrs no contact

I don't know who needs to hear this but 99.99% ...

805 I don't know who needs to hear this but 99.99% ...

Men aged 28 and over, are you worried about not...

777 Men aged 28 and over, are you worried about not...

I cold-approached a gorgeous girl!!!

739 I cold-approached a gorgeous girl!!!

I got rejected at the gym today

702 I got rejected at the gym today

Should I tell my guy friend some girl posted ab...

599 Should I tell my guy friend some girl posted ab...

UPDATE: GF GOING OUT ON NEW YEARS EVE WITHOUT M...

571 UPDATE: GF GOING OUT ON NEW YEARS EVE WITHOUT M...