/r/relationship_advice - top ten submissions for each month of 2023

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2023, December
I (28M) want a divorce from my wife (27F) but e...
7299 I (28M) want a divorce from my wife (27F) but e...
Wife (36F) ruined my (38M) staycation and I'm t...
6521 Wife (36F) ruined my (38M) staycation and I'm t...
I (26m) literally f*cked the shit out of my (25...
5473 I (26m) literally f*cked the shit out of my (25...
I'm [29F] divorcing my husband [28M] for sugges...
4928 I'm [29F] divorcing my husband [28M] for sugges...
I (m32) think I saw my baby’s chart and I can’t...
4410 I (m32) think I saw my baby’s chart and I can’t...
My (F 23) boyfriend (M 27) gives me horrible gi...
4073 My (F 23) boyfriend (M 27) gives me horrible gi...
My (35f) husband (35m) treats our biracial chil...
3901 My (35f) husband (35m) treats our biracial chil...
My (29m) girlfriend (30f) says I need to get ri...
3749 My (29m) girlfriend (30f) says I need to get ri...
I (28M) told my parents (51F), (50M) and siblin...
3647 I (28M) told my parents (51F), (50M) and siblin...
My (23F) boyfriend (23M) gave me the ick
3527 My (23F) boyfriend (23M) gave me the ick
2023, November
I (43F) just had sex for the first time. How do...
9570 I (43F) just had sex for the first time. How do...
My (25f) fiancé (23m) is gone for the weekend,...
6449 My (25f) fiancé (23m) is gone for the weekend,...
I(29 F) Found out My Husband(34M) is obsessed w...
5206 I(29 F) Found out My Husband(34M) is obsessed w...
My son 45M is dating a much younger girl 19M
5114 My son 45M is dating a much younger girl 19M
We (34F, 35M) opened our relationship and now I...
4929 We (34F, 35M) opened our relationship and now I...
My (23m) parents (46m, 44f) had a DNA test on m...
4375 My (23m) parents (46m, 44f) had a DNA test on m...
How do I (28F) move forward from a disappointin...
4355 How do I (28F) move forward from a disappointin...
My (M27) wife (F26) crossed the only line I eve...
4122 My (M27) wife (F26) crossed the only line I eve...
I (39F) heard something my husband (45M) said o...
3989 I (39F) heard something my husband (45M) said o...
My (32F) Husband (53M) wants a divorce. How do ...
3734 My (32F) Husband (53M) wants a divorce. How do ...
2023, October
My (24F) husband (31M) asked for a paternity te...
12626 My (24F) husband (31M) asked for a paternity te...
UPDATE: I [25M] have been on a few dates with a...
9899 UPDATE: I [25M] have been on a few dates with a...
i(35f) am disgusted by my husband (37m)
7173 i(35f) am disgusted by my husband (37m)
My (20F) single mother (44f) is pregnant, I am ...
6681 My (20F) single mother (44f) is pregnant, I am ...
I (28f) refused to sign my marriage license at ...
6518 I (28f) refused to sign my marriage license at ...
Update: My (36F) daughter's (18F) friend (18F) ...
6414 Update: My (36F) daughter's (18F) friend (18F) ...
I (F30) met my BF’s (M27) other girlfriend at...
6197 I (F30) met my BF’s (M27) other girlfriend at...
My (28F) husband (49M) lost his best friend (50...
6063 My (28F) husband (49M) lost his best friend (50...
I (38F) went out for a Halloween event last nig...
5600 I (38F) went out for a Halloween event last nig...
My (m34) wife (f32) has been cutting the string...
5456 My (m34) wife (f32) has been cutting the string...
2023, September
My (48M) daughter (19F) tried to hurt herself a...
10283 My (48M) daughter (19F) tried to hurt herself a...
Update: My (23F) boyfriend's mother (56F) keeps...
8866 Update: My (23F) boyfriend's mother (56F) keeps...
My fiancé (28m) passed away 2.5 weeks ago in m...
7666 My fiancé (28m) passed away 2.5 weeks ago in m...
I (35 F) discovered my husband's (38 M) infidel...
7064 I (35 F) discovered my husband's (38 M) infidel...
UPDATE : My (48M) daughter (19F) tried to hurt ...
6840 UPDATE : My (48M) daughter (19F) tried to hurt ...
I (34 F) was stabbed and now my soon-to-be ex-h...
6432 I (34 F) was stabbed and now my soon-to-be ex-h...
My son (6m) found his dog dead at their dads (3...
6356 My son (6m) found his dog dead at their dads (3...
How to avoid telling my (25f) best friend (25f)...
5836 How to avoid telling my (25f) best friend (25f)...
My (33M) girlfriend (32F) has one incredibly an...
5218 My (33M) girlfriend (32F) has one incredibly an...
Gray divorce how do I avoid living in my kid's ...
5129 Gray divorce how do I avoid living in my kid's ...
2023, August
My 23F bf 24M didn’t want to pay 200$ to save...
11877 My 23F bf 24M didn’t want to pay 200$ to save...
My wife 28F decides not to wear the ring I 28M ...
8067 My wife 28F decides not to wear the ring I 28M ...
I(39M) refused to force my daughter(18F) to giv...
7925 I(39M) refused to force my daughter(18F) to giv...
My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I...
7742 My 37F partner 36M wants a paternity test and I...
Update to- My(41f) husband(52m) has a second fa...
7056 Update to- My(41f) husband(52m) has a second fa...
I (22M) watched my girlfriend (22F) dance and t...
6884 I (22M) watched my girlfriend (22F) dance and t...
MY (35M) GF (32F) HAS BEEN SENDING NUDES TO HER...
6872 MY (35M) GF (32F) HAS BEEN SENDING NUDES TO HER...
My (48M) ex-wife (47F) has reached out to me af...
6368 My (48M) ex-wife (47F) has reached out to me af...
My (29F) bf (55M) just sent me a picture by acc...
6347 My (29F) bf (55M) just sent me a picture by acc...
My (38F) husband (43M) refuses to give up his g...
6281 My (38F) husband (43M) refuses to give up his g...
2023, July
Cousin (F24) falsely accused me (M31) of sxual ...
15748 Cousin (F24) falsely accused me (M31) of sxual ...
*Update* Last year, boyfriend (33m) quitted his...
10092 *Update* Last year, boyfriend (33m) quitted his...
My (37f) husband (37m) is angry I need surgery
7996 My (37f) husband (37m) is angry I need surgery
My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to pro...
7604 My boyfriend (27m) smashed my foundation to pro...
Update: My (37f) husband (37m) is angry I need ...
7472 Update: My (37f) husband (37m) is angry I need ...
I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my ...
6107 I (39M) found out I'm the literal backup to my ...
My wife F41 and I M40 had a threesome.
5972 My wife F41 and I M40 had a threesome.
My (21F) boyfriend (22M) said he would put $5 a...
5924 My (21F) boyfriend (22M) said he would put $5 a...
Boyfriend [18M] told me to eat pineapple after ...
5513 Boyfriend [18M] told me to eat pineapple after ...
My husband (38m) won't touch me (36f). Sexless ...
5112 My husband (38m) won't touch me (36f). Sexless ...
2023, June
I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that h...
18293 I (25F) overheard my (27M) boyfriend say that h...
My (f59) son (m34) is the one responsible for m...
16054 My (f59) son (m34) is the one responsible for m...
I (32F) purposefully ignored what my husband (3...
13989 I (32F) purposefully ignored what my husband (3...
I (38F) am in a new relationship (51M) and his ...
11527 I (38F) am in a new relationship (51M) and his ...
My boyfriend (24f) ordered me (22f) a salad the...
10794 My boyfriend (24f) ordered me (22f) a salad the...
My bf [30M] wants me [25F] to stop wearing make...
9635 My bf [30M] wants me [25F] to stop wearing make...
I (21F) found a spy camera in my room after my ...
9033 I (21F) found a spy camera in my room after my ...
My ex GF [24F] cheated on me [22M] & had a kid....
8392 My ex GF [24F] cheated on me [22M] & had a kid....
My (37M) ex-wife (30F) is about to be homeless ...
8162 My (37M) ex-wife (30F) is about to be homeless ...
"If you let me sleep with another man, I'll lik...
7635 "If you let me sleep with another man, I'll lik...
2023, May
I'm (38M)am finding it hard to date after my wi...
3004 I'm (38M)am finding it hard to date after my wi...
I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21)
2754 I (f21) am jealous of my twin sister (f21)
A girl (f19) is stalking me (m25) because she t...
2726 A girl (f19) is stalking me (m25) because she t...
My (26f) boyfriend (30m) cheated and blamed it ...
2669 My (26f) boyfriend (30m) cheated and blamed it ...
Ive just found out something about my(M26) girl...
2576 Ive just found out something about my(M26) girl...
My (42F) son (15F) told me last night that he h...
2477 My (42F) son (15F) told me last night that he h...
My husband and son both lied to me. (34f 36m)
2400 My husband and son both lied to me. (34f 36m)
Wife (32f) on phone with her “brother” at 2...
2345 Wife (32f) on phone with her “brother” at 2...
My (37f) husband (39m) is cheating, but won't a...
2218 My (37f) husband (39m) is cheating, but won't a...
My(27m) wife(29f) just told me she made an OF a...
2099 My(27m) wife(29f) just told me she made an OF a...
2023, April
Saw messages between my girlfriend (27f) and he...
3267 Saw messages between my girlfriend (27f) and he...
My 22f boyfriend 26m told his mum he would hit ...
2851 My 22f boyfriend 26m told his mum he would hit ...
(UPDATE) I caught my wife(F34) not being honest...
2343 (UPDATE) I caught my wife(F34) not being honest...
My (f23) bf (m23) was texting his friend about ...
2317 My (f23) bf (m23) was texting his friend about ...
My husband (36M) doesn’t want me (38F) to use...
2117 My husband (36M) doesn’t want me (38F) to use...
[21-F] [22-M] My boyfriend broke up with me bec...
1781 [21-F] [22-M] My boyfriend broke up with me bec...
My (26F) sister (26F) was pretty badly abused b...
1768 My (26F) sister (26F) was pretty badly abused b...
I (M30) found a pair of sealed condoms in my GF...
1724 I (M30) found a pair of sealed condoms in my GF...
How do I (29f) boyfriend (31m) to pay me for 3 ...
1648 How do I (29f) boyfriend (31m) to pay me for 3 ...
Husband [35m] demanded I [29f] stop cooking for...
1637 Husband [35m] demanded I [29f] stop cooking for...
2023, March
Update: My husband's ex wants to meet him (36M,...
3427 Update: My husband's ex wants to meet him (36M,...
My (22F) boyfriend (32M) won’t let me break u...
2889 My (22F) boyfriend (32M) won’t let me break u...
My(M29) mother-in-law(F57) took my gaming conso...
2773 My(M29) mother-in-law(F57) took my gaming conso...
I [30M] have ended my relationship with a singl...
2714 I [30M] have ended my relationship with a singl...
My (32M) wife (40F)'s daughter suddenly called ...
2692 My (32M) wife (40F)'s daughter suddenly called ...
Update: I [M43] was thinking of breaking up wit...
2393 Update: I [M43] was thinking of breaking up wit...
Update on My boyfriend (19M) has given me (19F)...
2102 Update on My boyfriend (19M) has given me (19F)...
How can I (M25) tell my wife (F23) that I can't...
2090 How can I (M25) tell my wife (F23) that I can't...
One of my [F19] best friends [F20] is highly in...
2083 One of my [F19] best friends [F20] is highly in...
People are Telling Me (25M) That my GF (25F) Ch...
2063 People are Telling Me (25M) That my GF (25F) Ch...
2023, February
Update: My (24m) family caught me being fucked ...
6308 Update: My (24m) family caught me being fucked ...
Update: My(28m) wife(30f) kicked me out after f...
3382 Update: My(28m) wife(30f) kicked me out after f...
My pregnant fiancé (29 f) had an affair with h...
3102 My pregnant fiancé (29 f) had an affair with h...
My husband (33M) told me he's no longer attract...
3001 My husband (33M) told me he's no longer attract...
how do I (F28) tell my husband (M33) that I wan...
2773 how do I (F28) tell my husband (M33) that I wan...
UPDATE: A woman [33F] I [36M] am dating posted ...
2646 UPDATE: A woman [33F] I [36M] am dating posted ...
My (26F) boyfriend (27M) rarely pays for things...
2586 My (26F) boyfriend (27M) rarely pays for things...
UPDATE: My GF (F25) of 4 years and I (M24) both...
2401 UPDATE: My GF (F25) of 4 years and I (M24) both...
1 (26F) thought this was something my husband (...
2326 1 (26F) thought this was something my husband (...
The courts said I would have to share custody w...
2316 The courts said I would have to share custody w...
2023, January
(Update) I (35m) was incarcerated and lost touc...
9411 (Update) I (35m) was incarcerated and lost touc...
[23F][25M] I had a pregnancy scare and my boyfr...
6513 [23F][25M] I had a pregnancy scare and my boyfr...
I (36F) got left out of an important decision a...
5014 I (36F) got left out of an important decision a...
My (24m) family caught me being fucked by my bo...
3821 My (24m) family caught me being fucked by my bo...
(28m) 27m) (30f) My best friend confessed feeli...
3603 (28m) 27m) (30f) My best friend confessed feeli...
(39f 39m) I’m losing my husband and don’t t...
2835 (39f 39m) I’m losing my husband and don’t t...
(23m) (23f) UPDATE: Girlfriend wanted an open r...
2772 (23m) (23f) UPDATE: Girlfriend wanted an open r...
(26m) (28f) My gf mentioned open relationship a...
2620 (26m) (28f) My gf mentioned open relationship a...
My(M27) girlfriend(F22) reacted badly in our ge...
2583 My(M27) girlfriend(F22) reacted badly in our ge...
My (30F) sister (27F) didn’t tell me her girl...
2489 My (30F) sister (27F) didn’t tell me her girl...