/r/relationships - top ten submissions for each month of 2021

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2021, December
UPDATE: My(30M) GF(32F) of 6 months has changed...
2765 UPDATE: My(30M) GF(32F) of 6 months has changed...
Close friend's wife seemingly hates me, is ther...
2192 Close friend's wife seemingly hates me, is ther...
My friend (30) asked me (34) to be her bridesma...
1705 My friend (30) asked me (34) to be her bridesma...
Grandma [F80s] keeps pushing her antique values...
1550 Grandma [F80s] keeps pushing her antique values...
When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over?
1466 When should I tell my boyfriend it’s over?
My [F27] flat mate [F28] has expressed she has ...
1447 My [F27] flat mate [F28] has expressed she has ...
Should I (30M) get back with my ex wife (28F)?
1082 Should I (30M) get back with my ex wife (28F)?
My Bf Gave Me a Family Heirloom (and I hate it)
969 My Bf Gave Me a Family Heirloom (and I hate it)
Husband (38M) is paranoid about crime to an ext...
858 Husband (38M) is paranoid about crime to an ext...
My [20M] girlfriend (?) [20F] is insecure with ...
826 My [20M] girlfriend (?) [20F] is insecure with ...
2021, November
UPDATE: My (23M) coworker (21M) is a really gre...
2543 UPDATE: My (23M) coworker (21M) is a really gre...
Saw my [30F] fiancé’s [28M] Reddit comments ...
2277 Saw my [30F] fiancé’s [28M] Reddit comments ...
My(30M) GF(32F) of 6 months has changed her beh...
2109 My(30M) GF(32F) of 6 months has changed her beh...
UPDATE: My (28 M) girlfriend (25 F) is constant...
1508 UPDATE: My (28 M) girlfriend (25 F) is constant...
My (F27) boyfriend (M26) is not invited to Than...
1369 My (F27) boyfriend (M26) is not invited to Than...
My (M43) wife (F40) of nine years has gotten in...
1351 My (M43) wife (F40) of nine years has gotten in...
My [29M] girlfriend [28F] tends to quote entire...
1134 My [29M] girlfriend [28F] tends to quote entire...
I (28F) overheard my neighbor (30sF) berating/a...
979 I (28F) overheard my neighbor (30sF) berating/a...
My [24F] wife [26F] of almost 2 years has ADHD,...
939 My [24F] wife [26F] of almost 2 years has ADHD,...
Boyfriend (39M) told me one year after the fact...
848 Boyfriend (39M) told me one year after the fact...
2021, October
UPDATE My girlfriend (25F) has not texted me (2...
6208 UPDATE My girlfriend (25F) has not texted me (2...
Update: should I move out?
4123 Update: should I move out?
[Update] My [27/F] GF [30/F] hasn't had a job i...
3290 [Update] My [27/F] GF [30/F] hasn't had a job i...
Roommate (27F) thought I (25F) was a lesbian, f...
2677 Roommate (27F) thought I (25F) was a lesbian, f...
How do I (25M) to support my newly paralyzed gi...
2499 How do I (25M) to support my newly paralyzed gi...
My (38F) husband (41M) shaved his beard for Mov...
1934 My (38F) husband (41M) shaved his beard for Mov...
How do I tell my boyfriend I miss hanging out w...
1919 How do I tell my boyfriend I miss hanging out w...
[Update] Friend (25f) put me (27f) on the spot ...
1866 [Update] Friend (25f) put me (27f) on the spot ...
I’m [25F] tired of my boyfriend’s [30M] you...
1629 I’m [25F] tired of my boyfriend’s [30M] you...
[UPDATE] I (28F) ended things with my bf (32M) ...
1492 [UPDATE] I (28F) ended things with my bf (32M) ...
2021, September
Update after 5 years: Long-distance girlfriend ...
5847 Update after 5 years: Long-distance girlfriend ...
Update : My (22M) roommate (22F) and I are stuc...
3521 Update : My (22M) roommate (22F) and I are stuc...
*UPDATE* :My old classmate (M, 21) wants me (M,...
2638 *UPDATE* :My old classmate (M, 21) wants me (M,...
UPDATE: Going to confess my (23F) feelings to m...
2252 UPDATE: Going to confess my (23F) feelings to m...
my (31m) girlfriend (39f) is talking excessivel...
1959 my (31m) girlfriend (39f) is talking excessivel...
UPDATE: I (20f) am pregnant and my estranged st...
1824 UPDATE: I (20f) am pregnant and my estranged st...
How do I (41F) regain sympathy for my husband (...
1384 How do I (41F) regain sympathy for my husband (...
My (26 F) parents won’t invite my gf (26 F) o...
1315 My (26 F) parents won’t invite my gf (26 F) o...
I (27F) was going to leave my aloof and unlovin...
1285 I (27F) was going to leave my aloof and unlovin...
UPDATE: I (20F) cut ties with a friend (22F) wh...
1238 UPDATE: I (20F) cut ties with a friend (22F) wh...
2021, August
Update : I (26F) realized I have a crush on my ...
5116 Update : I (26F) realized I have a crush on my ...
We call upon Reddit to take action against the ...
4173 We call upon Reddit to take action against the ...
UPDATE** My(31f) husband(32M) doesn't enjoy sex...
3615 UPDATE** My(31f) husband(32M) doesn't enjoy sex...
UPDATE: My (19F) Biological father’s (45M) wi...
3414 UPDATE: My (19F) Biological father’s (45M) wi...
UPDATE - My (29F) boyfriend (25M) has been unsu...
2955 UPDATE - My (29F) boyfriend (25M) has been unsu...
I (29M) need to establish some new boundaries a...
2180 I (29M) need to establish some new boundaries a...
My 77F grandmother is 'done with me' 30F becaus...
1832 My 77F grandmother is 'done with me' 30F becaus...
My(25M) straight batchmate/co-intern/acquaintan...
1448 My(25M) straight batchmate/co-intern/acquaintan...
I (24F) miss living with my parents more than I...
1259 I (24F) miss living with my parents more than I...
Got an apartment with my boyfriend and found ou...
1126 Got an apartment with my boyfriend and found ou...
2021, July
UPDATE : I (26F) am struggling to come out to m...
4417 UPDATE : I (26F) am struggling to come out to m...
How do I start a relationship with my nieces an...
3466 How do I start a relationship with my nieces an...
My (42M) wife (F41) of 18 years has numerous he...
2821 My (42M) wife (F41) of 18 years has numerous he...
Update : My(24F) boyfriend (23M) sometimes make...
2336 Update : My(24F) boyfriend (23M) sometimes make...
My( F 21) fiancé’s (M 23) best man just told...
2291 My( F 21) fiancé’s (M 23) best man just told...
My [27M] girlfriend [27F] of three years told m...
2278 My [27M] girlfriend [27F] of three years told m...
How can I (17F) thank my step mother (41F) for ...
2144 How can I (17F) thank my step mother (41F) for ...
UPDATE : My (26F) boyfriend(29M) insinuated tha...
1928 UPDATE : My (26F) boyfriend(29M) insinuated tha...
My (19F) biological father’s (45m) wife (40F)...
1729 My (19F) biological father’s (45m) wife (40F)...
UPDATE - My [32] partner [47] became really pus...
1432 UPDATE - My [32] partner [47] became really pus...
2021, June
Update to Nightmare Situation: Me(35F) with Par...
6224 Update to Nightmare Situation: Me(35F) with Par...
Update: I (28M) messed up by asking my girlfrie...
5570 Update: I (28M) messed up by asking my girlfrie...
Update : I (32F) snooped on my husband's (33M) ...
5505 Update : I (32F) snooped on my husband's (33M) ...
UPDATE My boyfriend (18M) drove away (18F) when...
4302 UPDATE My boyfriend (18M) drove away (18F) when...
How do I (28f) tell my husband (30m) that I am ...
3790 How do I (28f) tell my husband (30m) that I am ...
UPDATE: My boyfriend gets panic attacks when I ...
3659 UPDATE: My boyfriend gets panic attacks when I ...
Woman (20sF) at gym is flirting and making my( ...
3462 Woman (20sF) at gym is flirting and making my( ...
UPDATE: LDR boyfriend (M23) cheated on me (F20)...
3274 UPDATE: LDR boyfriend (M23) cheated on me (F20)...
My(30f) BF(30m) seems offended if I don't seem ...
2707 My(30f) BF(30m) seems offended if I don't seem ...
(UPDATE) My (36M) family is upset I'm 'prioriti...
2359 (UPDATE) My (36M) family is upset I'm 'prioriti...
2021, May
UPDATE : I (46F) have hurt my daughter (16F) by...
7844 UPDATE : I (46F) have hurt my daughter (16F) by...
[Update] I [29F] am unsure on how to put the mo...
6155 [Update] I [29F] am unsure on how to put the mo...
I (25f) feel upset with what my husband (26m) g...
4066 I (25f) feel upset with what my husband (26m) g...
UPDATE: I (17m) cannot get my parents (45m, 44f...
4053 UPDATE: I (17m) cannot get my parents (45m, 44f...
UPDATE: I don’t know what to expect for my [2...
4012 UPDATE: I don’t know what to expect for my [2...
My (57M) daughter (32F) is refusing to speak to...
3062 My (57M) daughter (32F) is refusing to speak to...
My (24M) fiancé (24F) insists that we take car...
2779 My (24M) fiancé (24F) insists that we take car...
I (30F) live in a fantasy world (married to 30M)
2770 I (30F) live in a fantasy world (married to 30M)
My [26m]'s girlfriend [24f] wants to break up b...
2352 My [26m]'s girlfriend [24f] wants to break up b...
My (28F) uncle (49M) is fixated on the idea of ...
2126 My (28F) uncle (49M) is fixated on the idea of ...
2021, April
UPDATE: My (24F) boyfriend (26M) has a long tim...
5751 UPDATE: My (24F) boyfriend (26M) has a long tim...
I(17f) told dad about mom's affair to save him ...
5159 I(17f) told dad about mom's affair to save him ...
UPDATE: My Girlfriend wants to take a stressful...
5122 UPDATE: My Girlfriend wants to take a stressful...
UPDATE: My (20F) friend (20F) tried to hook up ...
3441 UPDATE: My (20F) friend (20F) tried to hook up ...
My [20M] girlfriend [20F] hates venting to me b...
2010 My [20M] girlfriend [20F] hates venting to me b...
[UPDATE] I’ve dropped enough hints. I’m rea...
1317 [UPDATE] I’ve dropped enough hints. I’m rea...
My wife (F 43) and I (M 45) Have Been Sleeping ...
1260 My wife (F 43) and I (M 45) Have Been Sleeping ...
I feel deceived about my husband's finances, an...
1060 I feel deceived about my husband's finances, an...
My [32M] girlfriend’s [32F] feelings about be...
1037 My [32M] girlfriend’s [32F] feelings about be...
My (24F) boyfriend (26M) has a long time female...
977 My (24F) boyfriend (26M) has a long time female...
2021, March
UPDATE: Me [36 M] married to my Wife [36 F] 11 ...
10993 UPDATE: Me [36 M] married to my Wife [36 F] 11 ...
UPDATE - My (27F) boyfriend (28M) is obsessed w...
5973 UPDATE - My (27F) boyfriend (28M) is obsessed w...
UPDATE - My fiance (30f) and I (36m) are having...
5149 UPDATE - My fiance (30f) and I (36m) are having...
[UPDATE] My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyf...
4350 [UPDATE] My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyf...
My (17F) sister (15F) smells really bad and eve...
3005 My (17F) sister (15F) smells really bad and eve...
my (14m) family is falling apart
2692 my (14m) family is falling apart
Should I cut my father off for his clear favour...
1122 Should I cut my father off for his clear favour...
Me [33F] with my wife [30F]. She is a very freq...
1073 Me [33F] with my wife [30F]. She is a very freq...
My (20F) friend (20F) tried to hook up with my ...
955 My (20F) friend (20F) tried to hook up with my ...
My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyfriend
910 My Best Friend Is In Love With My Boyfriend
2021, February
UPDATE My best friend [22F] is giving up a full...
5970 UPDATE My best friend [22F] is giving up a full...
(5 year update) Me [44 M] with my sister [50 F]...
5777 (5 year update) Me [44 M] with my sister [50 F]...
UPDATE: I (24m) cannot stand my boyfriend’s r...
5381 UPDATE: I (24m) cannot stand my boyfriend’s r...
UPDATE: My coworker [45M] often interjects his ...
4801 UPDATE: My coworker [45M] often interjects his ...
UPDATE: M27 boyfriend won’t talk about the fu...
4347 UPDATE: M27 boyfriend won’t talk about the fu...
Married friend (26F) can’t stop talking about...
2603 Married friend (26F) can’t stop talking about...
My coworker [45M] often interjects his opinion ...
1825 My coworker [45M] often interjects his opinion ...
UPDATE: "I [22f] can't keep myself from crying ...
1726 UPDATE: "I [22f] can't keep myself from crying ...
My best friend (29) won’t speak to me since I...
1419 My best friend (29) won’t speak to me since I...
Should I tell my fiance (both mid-30s) that I'm...
1212 Should I tell my fiance (both mid-30s) that I'm...
2021, January
UPDATE: I (30F) caught my husband (31M) in an a...
15168 UPDATE: I (30F) caught my husband (31M) in an a...
Update to the pettiest question ever
13458 Update to the pettiest question ever
UPDATE: My (29M) soon to be ex-husband seems to...
7166 UPDATE: My (29M) soon to be ex-husband seems to...
UPDATE: When I 34f told boyfriend 36m I frequen...
4192 UPDATE: When I 34f told boyfriend 36m I frequen...
My (F47) husband (M48) finally wants to try cou...
3827 My (F47) husband (M48) finally wants to try cou...
My mom texts my friends and girlfriend constantly.
3780 My mom texts my friends and girlfriend constantly.
Husband (32) gaming for 6+ hours a night
3699 Husband (32) gaming for 6+ hours a night
My (41F) husband (43M) is refusing (out of prid...
3687 My (41F) husband (43M) is refusing (out of prid...
UPDATE: I (26M) can't handle my wife's (26F) PMS.
3485 UPDATE: I (26M) can't handle my wife's (26F) PMS.
How to deal with my dad (50/M) moving his GF (4...
2898 How to deal with my dad (50/M) moving his GF (4...