/r/selfimprovement - top ten submissions for each month of 2023

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2023, December
Completely changed my life within 4 months. Thi...
1335 Completely changed my life within 4 months. Thi...
What can I do in my 20's to ensure I stay healt...
560 What can I do in my 20's to ensure I stay healt...
I've been conned by Alpha male grind culture. W...
514 I've been conned by Alpha male grind culture. W...
How I quit porn forever.
510 How I quit porn forever.
If you lack control of your life and dont know ...
432 If you lack control of your life and dont know ...
What was the best change you made in 2023?
419 What was the best change you made in 2023?
I completely turned my life around
392 I completely turned my life around
Decided to uninstall Instagram, was getting ove...
384 Decided to uninstall Instagram, was getting ove...
Drank over the Christmas weekend after being so...
381 Drank over the Christmas weekend after being so...
You Didn't Waste Your Life — You Can Always Mak...
381 You Didn't Waste Your Life — You Can Always Mak...
2023, November
Ask Arnold for Advice
1492 Ask Arnold for Advice
I'm unfollowing this sub because the posts are ...
1208 I'm unfollowing this sub because the posts are ...
Gen alpha is in danger
853 Gen alpha is in danger
What habits significantly improved your life?
638 What habits significantly improved your life?
1 upvote = 1 push up
445 1 upvote = 1 push up
Suggest me an unconventional way to wake up ear...
426 Suggest me an unconventional way to wake up ear...
Why is everyone so fixated on talking to women?
423 Why is everyone so fixated on talking to women?
What’s the biggest thing holding most people ...
420 What’s the biggest thing holding most people ...
I'm Kissing Dating Goodbye
420 I'm Kissing Dating Goodbye
Is it possible to change your life at 30?
411 Is it possible to change your life at 30?
2023, October
People’s who have transformed themselves comp...
1054 People’s who have transformed themselves comp...
My girlfriend of 4 years left me for my best fr...
977 My girlfriend of 4 years left me for my best fr...
Today, I talked to baby me.
678 Today, I talked to baby me.
Why am I always the girl who watches the drinks...
685 Why am I always the girl who watches the drinks...
What books have changed your life?
673 What books have changed your life?
Pieces of advice I’ve gotten in 25 years of l...
616 Pieces of advice I’ve gotten in 25 years of l...
I’m 36 with no partner in the horizon and I f...
587 I’m 36 with no partner in the horizon and I f...
A girl blocked me after meeting me irl
539 A girl blocked me after meeting me irl
10 years to waste
532 10 years to waste
Habits I wish I started in my 20s as a 30 Year old
464 Habits I wish I started in my 20s as a 30 Year old
2023, September
Girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm 30 i...
937 Girlfriend broke up with me yesterday. I'm 30 i...
I JUST DID A FUCKING PULLUP
863 I JUST DID A FUCKING PULLUP
How do people get girlfriends without much effo...
694 How do people get girlfriends without much effo...
What minor thing did you adopt that made people...
681 What minor thing did you adopt that made people...
What would make you the happiest person alive r...
637 What would make you the happiest person alive r...
I’m 26 and I have the most boring life you ca...
559 I’m 26 and I have the most boring life you ca...
I Approached a girl and gave her a compliment, ...
507 I Approached a girl and gave her a compliment, ...
Is This the Loneliest Generation of Men?
489 Is This the Loneliest Generation of Men?
I 16f is ugly and feel done bc of it
391 I 16f is ugly and feel done bc of it
Genuinely, What is the main reason you’re sad...
375 Genuinely, What is the main reason you’re sad...
2023, August
all i do is exercise and work. i have no life.
1171 all i do is exercise and work. i have no life.
PSA: Most of you are just young.
1075 PSA: Most of you are just young.
I envy people who were pushed to be excellent a...
1070 I envy people who were pushed to be excellent a...
Uber guest made me reflect on how much of a los...
917 Uber guest made me reflect on how much of a los...
(20M) Wtf is wrong with me?
915 (20M) Wtf is wrong with me?
I notice a ton of men here questioning everythi...
876 I notice a ton of men here questioning everythi...
I woke up at 5 AM every day for the last 2 mont...
798 I woke up at 5 AM every day for the last 2 mont...
What's with all these teenage boys claiming the...
772 What's with all these teenage boys claiming the...
What I learned in 4 years of Self-Improvement.....
744 What I learned in 4 years of Self-Improvement.....
My best friend in this life of 16 years committ...
726 My best friend in this life of 16 years committ...
2023, July
Is 11 years old too late for college, marriage ...
1870 Is 11 years old too late for college, marriage ...
Ten simple pointers to get better at approachin...
1368 Ten simple pointers to get better at approachin...
I accidentally saw a child p*rn ad and now I wa...
821 I accidentally saw a child p*rn ad and now I wa...
I will be new man in 6 months.
730 I will be new man in 6 months.
How on earth do people have the time and energy...
719 How on earth do people have the time and energy...
It's all just... Empty entertainment.
680 It's all just... Empty entertainment.
At age 33 I finally turned my life around
633 At age 33 I finally turned my life around
I did not watch porn for 3 weeks
543 I did not watch porn for 3 weeks
How often do you have days when you just "do no...
540 How often do you have days when you just "do no...
Do these 5 things after 7pm and your life will ...
530 Do these 5 things after 7pm and your life will ...
2023, June
What's with so many people feeling "behind" or ...
1798 What's with so many people feeling "behind" or ...
Please, fucking please, help me. Talk to me. I ...
1437 Please, fucking please, help me. Talk to me. I ...
I (f) laughed at a guy confessing his feelings ...
1065 I (f) laughed at a guy confessing his feelings ...
I bought an old Toyota to save money and my fam...
982 I bought an old Toyota to save money and my fam...
100 Small Things that will make a BIG Difference
932 100 Small Things that will make a BIG Difference
1 Year of coldshowers has changed me completely.
893 1 Year of coldshowers has changed me completely.
Gotta stop watching porn ..🤦🏽‍♂️💀
827 Gotta stop watching porn ..🤦🏽‍♂️💀
You're not too old for college (or anything els...
787 You're not too old for college (or anything els...
Do more things willingly, and you will see prod...
729 Do more things willingly, and you will see prod...
My life has started to become meaningful and wo...
576 My life has started to become meaningful and wo...
2023, May
Cousin quit her job. Became a cam girl and is n...
4205 Cousin quit her job. Became a cam girl and is n...
Change the way you speak about yourself and you...
1818 Change the way you speak about yourself and you...
I quit meth 12 days ago
1615 I quit meth 12 days ago
Why do so many men in self-improvement spheres ...
1394 Why do so many men in self-improvement spheres ...
I’m going to delete your overthinking in 30 s...
1226 I’m going to delete your overthinking in 30 s...
No one tells you how crushingly boring cancer is.
1212 No one tells you how crushingly boring cancer is.
Friends said I’m just a diversity hire
993 Friends said I’m just a diversity hire
You may be the best catch out there, but if you...
768 You may be the best catch out there, but if you...
They say meth is the devil. Well beating meth a...
759 They say meth is the devil. Well beating meth a...
I took a shower today.
754 I took a shower today.
2023, April
Made it out of the friend zone and I owe it to ...
1924 Made it out of the friend zone and I owe it to ...
Your self-worth is so much more than relationsh...
1735 Your self-worth is so much more than relationsh...
I am 16 and have saved $10.3k in 7 months
1369 I am 16 and have saved $10.3k in 7 months
4 months of dedication to my body and mind has ...
1264 4 months of dedication to my body and mind has ...
Exercising is the single best thing I’ve done...
1257 Exercising is the single best thing I’ve done...
I’m 26 and lost it all
1225 I’m 26 and lost it all
my small 10 habits in the last 10 months... bab...
1097 my small 10 habits in the last 10 months... bab...
No longer afraid of death. Nothing to live for....
983 No longer afraid of death. Nothing to live for....
Found out how small things can make your day wa...
973 Found out how small things can make your day wa...
The regret of having wasted my teen years will ...
767 The regret of having wasted my teen years will ...
2023, March
I’m turning 18 in 2 weeks and have saved $22k...
2742 I’m turning 18 in 2 weeks and have saved $22k...
99% of the problems are created by your mind.
1774 99% of the problems are created by your mind.
Uncomfortable truths we all need to accept:
1658 Uncomfortable truths we all need to accept:
Anxiety Pro Tip: Anxiety thrives on avoidance. ...
1523 Anxiety Pro Tip: Anxiety thrives on avoidance. ...
Stop insulting yourself homie
1219 Stop insulting yourself homie
After months of crushing on a girl, I finally t...
1173 After months of crushing on a girl, I finally t...
To the users who are trying to get a gf/bf
1120 To the users who are trying to get a gf/bf
just deleted 21k images of porn/hentai
1113 just deleted 21k images of porn/hentai
I'm from Turkey and after earthquake my whole f...
1025 I'm from Turkey and after earthquake my whole f...
I was in prison at the ages of 18,20,21. I’m ...
1003 I was in prison at the ages of 18,20,21. I’m ...
2023, February
A message for men in their 20s:
1858 A message for men in their 20s:
Fuck it. I'm leaving everything behind and goin...
1300 Fuck it. I'm leaving everything behind and goin...
Pay Attention To Your Attention Span
1229 Pay Attention To Your Attention Span
Reminder that you are not making any progress b...
1076 Reminder that you are not making any progress b...
I asked out a girl in person for the first time...
990 I asked out a girl in person for the first time...
So, I just told my crush that I like her, and s...
914 So, I just told my crush that I like her, and s...
Does working out, eating good, and drinking a l...
772 Does working out, eating good, and drinking a l...
Self-love is more than just treating yourself t...
768 Self-love is more than just treating yourself t...
I'm sending my love to anyone who is presently ...
738 I'm sending my love to anyone who is presently ...
How I went from lazy to hyper productive in 31 ...
725 How I went from lazy to hyper productive in 31 ...
2023, January
Stop consuming content online that makes you an...
2374 Stop consuming content online that makes you an...
being off of most social media I realized how o...
1088 being off of most social media I realized how o...
what in the, world. is going on.
977 what in the, world. is going on.
I lost my virginity at age 25 (M) on January 5,...
940 I lost my virginity at age 25 (M) on January 5,...
Not to be a peen but stop with all the I wasted...
887 Not to be a peen but stop with all the I wasted...
Shout out to the men who are focusing on self-l...
814 Shout out to the men who are focusing on self-l...
Yes, deleting your social media REALLY helps.
785 Yes, deleting your social media REALLY helps.
I got awarded Dean's High Honor List with a GPA...
770 I got awarded Dean's High Honor List with a GPA...
I uninstalled TikTok
752 I uninstalled TikTok
7 Body Language Secrets That Will 5x Your Confi...
756 7 Body Language Secrets That Will 5x Your Confi...