/r/socialskills - top ten submissions for each month of 2022

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2022, December
If you’re anxious for a date/meeting someone ...
2754 If you’re anxious for a date/meeting someone ...
What does it mean if a person masturbates to you?
2496 What does it mean if a person masturbates to you?
Pretty privilege is a thing… if you aren’t ...
1976 Pretty privilege is a thing… if you aren’t ...
Sometimes you're not as important to others as ...
1956 Sometimes you're not as important to others as ...
Got rejected at the club but all my friends wen...
1885 Got rejected at the club but all my friends wen...
Got rejected by a friend, but I have no regrets
1666 Got rejected by a friend, but I have no regrets
tiered of hearing "Cant find a girlfriend shit"
1647 tiered of hearing "Cant find a girlfriend shit"
After I got a glimpse of what becoming more att...
1347 After I got a glimpse of what becoming more att...
I'm never someone's first choice and it negativ...
1327 I'm never someone's first choice and it negativ...
Is it weird for a 16 year old girl to be friend...
1211 Is it weird for a 16 year old girl to be friend...
2022, November
Shout-out to people who keep listening to you w...
3049 Shout-out to people who keep listening to you w...
Don’t take dating advice from people who hate...
2830 Don’t take dating advice from people who hate...
This is the #1 social skill you can learn for c...
2762 This is the #1 social skill you can learn for c...
I feel like my IQ drops like 20 points whenever...
2020 I feel like my IQ drops like 20 points whenever...
Went to a bar last night expecting to meet nobo...
1940 Went to a bar last night expecting to meet nobo...
I finally had my first kiss 😁😁😁
1836 I finally had my first kiss 😁😁😁
I've been making a lot of friends thanks to a b...
1618 I've been making a lot of friends thanks to a b...
I figured out why I got ignored in groups, and ...
1524 I figured out why I got ignored in groups, and ...
I finally understand why being nice isn't enough
1487 I finally understand why being nice isn't enough
The older I get, the more I realize people just...
1400 The older I get, the more I realize people just...
2022, October
I was today years old when I learned that small...
3708 I was today years old when I learned that small...
Best advice to meet people (or how I became an ...
2578 Best advice to meet people (or how I became an ...
UPDATE : I got rejected :)
2461 UPDATE : I got rejected :)
Got kicked from a hiking meetup for talking to ...
2156 Got kicked from a hiking meetup for talking to ...
I used to have bad social skills. This is my ad...
2149 I used to have bad social skills. This is my ad...
If you want to try clubbing solo but are nervou...
1869 If you want to try clubbing solo but are nervou...
PSA: DO NOT ASK GIRLS OUT AT THE GYM
1801 PSA: DO NOT ASK GIRLS OUT AT THE GYM
I asked out my friend and she said no
1774 I asked out my friend and she said no
Loss of intelligence due to isolation ?
1645 Loss of intelligence due to isolation ?
The 6 pillars for meaningful conversation
1576 The 6 pillars for meaningful conversation
2022, September
Got called at a wedding. Walked away without sa...
3572 Got called at a wedding. Walked away without sa...
I finally had the courage to say no
2703 I finally had the courage to say no
As a guy, I'm extremely scared of making a girl...
2217 As a guy, I'm extremely scared of making a girl...
LPT: People won't go out of their way to includ...
1867 LPT: People won't go out of their way to includ...
"Stop caring what people think" didn't work for...
1762 "Stop caring what people think" didn't work for...
Bank teller asked me to count my bills elsewhere
1752 Bank teller asked me to count my bills elsewhere
Does anyone else literally have no friends?
1630 Does anyone else literally have no friends?
I got the courage to ask a girl out today.
1617 I got the courage to ask a girl out today.
Sometimes it’s only until you develop a healt...
1555 Sometimes it’s only until you develop a healt...
Why do insecure people get no respect?
1429 Why do insecure people get no respect?
2022, August
Stop valuing approaching random women on the st...
8267 Stop valuing approaching random women on the st...
My husband has been including me a lot with his...
4570 My husband has been including me a lot with his...
My selfie was so bad it caused someone to unfri...
2352 My selfie was so bad it caused someone to unfri...
I may have messed up my life by not doing anything
2029 I may have messed up my life by not doing anything
I blew my chance to be social in college, now w...
1876 I blew my chance to be social in college, now w...
Don’t be me. Wait until you establish rapport...
1720 Don’t be me. Wait until you establish rapport...
my friend (25F) is accusing me of assault after...
1622 my friend (25F) is accusing me of assault after...
Why do i NEVER have anything to talk about, am ...
1574 Why do i NEVER have anything to talk about, am ...
If being cunning and selfish can get you far ah...
1487 If being cunning and selfish can get you far ah...
Self deprecating humor: why to avoid it
1324 Self deprecating humor: why to avoid it
2022, July
[Discussion] “I believe depression is legitim...
3567 [Discussion] “I believe depression is legitim...
Taking entertainment out of my life turned me i...
3396 Taking entertainment out of my life turned me i...
Asked a girl in a bar if she wants beer.She sai...
3116 Asked a girl in a bar if she wants beer.She sai...
STOP TRYING TO BE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO DONâ€...
2986 STOP TRYING TO BE FRIENDS WITH PEOPLE WHO DONâ€...
Bunkmate beating his meat
1990 Bunkmate beating his meat
People Don't Actually Care About The Conversati...
1944 People Don't Actually Care About The Conversati...
"Stop caring what people think" isnt useful adv...
1924 "Stop caring what people think" isnt useful adv...
Unpopular Opinion: You need to feel loved first...
1846 Unpopular Opinion: You need to feel loved first...
I was 20. In what seems like an instant, I beca...
1800 I was 20. In what seems like an instant, I beca...
Is sex that good? Or society is overhyping it?
1784 Is sex that good? Or society is overhyping it?
2022, June
I accidentally flirted with someone for the fir...
4420 I accidentally flirted with someone for the fir...
Does anyone else here have a habit of developin...
4036 Does anyone else here have a habit of developin...
If your S/O shows you a meme you've seen before...
3083 If your S/O shows you a meme you've seen before...
I quit FB and IG because people are so narcissi...
2778 I quit FB and IG because people are so narcissi...
The satisfaction of being rejected
1786 The satisfaction of being rejected
Socializing is a muscle that needs to be traine...
1685 Socializing is a muscle that needs to be traine...
I need help ASAP! Neighbors parked all over my ...
1603 I need help ASAP! Neighbors parked all over my ...
The standard advice is ‘be yourself’ but th...
1522 The standard advice is ‘be yourself’ but th...
how to be charismatic?
1354 how to be charismatic?
Pretty Privilege: Is it Real in Your Experience?
1240 Pretty Privilege: Is it Real in Your Experience?
2022, May
Asked the guy I'm dating to be my boyfriend, an...
6784 Asked the guy I'm dating to be my boyfriend, an...
Today I sat alone with a Chess set and interact...
3289 Today I sat alone with a Chess set and interact...
Fuck social anxiety as of today I declare mysel...
2894 Fuck social anxiety as of today I declare mysel...
A Single Compliment From a Girl Can Have a Sign...
2897 A Single Compliment From a Girl Can Have a Sign...
I…did…it
2378 I…did…it
Why do girls think that guys want to hear about...
2352 Why do girls think that guys want to hear about...
The most powerful thing you can do
2082 The most powerful thing you can do
after 5 days of insecuritys i took my shot and ...
1823 after 5 days of insecuritys i took my shot and ...
I went from depressed, anti social, and lonely ...
1805 I went from depressed, anti social, and lonely ...
The consequences of stand up for yourself and s...
1751 The consequences of stand up for yourself and s...
2022, April
I finally told him that I find him attractive!!
3058 I finally told him that I find him attractive!!
I(M~20) asked out a female friend of mine on a ...
2509 I(M~20) asked out a female friend of mine on a ...
I was never taught basic everyday skills by my ...
2314 I was never taught basic everyday skills by my ...
Just don't be a people pleaser and see how life...
2295 Just don't be a people pleaser and see how life...
I (M22)went to the club by myself and made a ne...
2168 I (M22)went to the club by myself and made a ne...
how can i stop my family from making racist rem...
2160 how can i stop my family from making racist rem...
A year ago I was so alone I was suicidal. Now I...
2040 A year ago I was so alone I was suicidal. Now I...
My self esteem increased after I saw a video of...
1971 My self esteem increased after I saw a video of...
I just had a fourteen hour long conversation
1945 I just had a fourteen hour long conversation
Took myself on a date, nervous wreck but I made...
1812 Took myself on a date, nervous wreck but I made...
2022, March
Running out of things to say during a conversat...
5956 Running out of things to say during a conversat...
I went up to someone in a bar and said “Hi Iâ...
4338 I went up to someone in a bar and said “Hi Iâ...
I figured out why women are repelled by me, fin...
4106 I figured out why women are repelled by me, fin...
Anyone else wasting away in their twenties?
2636 Anyone else wasting away in their twenties?
i genuinely don’t have any friends. at all.
2275 i genuinely don’t have any friends. at all.
Anyone else prefer being alone most of the time...
1874 Anyone else prefer being alone most of the time...
I stopped chasing social attention and honestly...
1759 I stopped chasing social attention and honestly...
I went outside after 5 years
1725 I went outside after 5 years
[25m] for the first time in my life I've asked ...
1716 [25m] for the first time in my life I've asked ...
Do you worry about being perceived as a boring ...
1479 Do you worry about being perceived as a boring ...
2022, February
Im not quiet because im afraid of others opinio...
2795 Im not quiet because im afraid of others opinio...
I just noticed how much eye contact is importan...
1913 I just noticed how much eye contact is importan...
I got ghosted for having an android 😂
1908 I got ghosted for having an android 😂
Girls calling me ugly
1802 Girls calling me ugly
Professor humiliated me in front of the entire ...
1506 Professor humiliated me in front of the entire ...
I really don’t understand how other people fi...
1422 I really don’t understand how other people fi...
I’m tired of being picked on/walked all overâ...
1189 I’m tired of being picked on/walked all overâ...
Anyone love one on one interaction but hate gro...
1166 Anyone love one on one interaction but hate gro...
is it weird for me ( a girl) to ask a guy if he...
1137 is it weird for me ( a girl) to ask a guy if he...
Im a shy guy and built up the courage to ask ou...
1057 Im a shy guy and built up the courage to ask ou...
2022, January
I went from 0 friends to having a massive socia...
2896 I went from 0 friends to having a massive socia...
Does anyone else enjoy being alone a little TOO...
2816 Does anyone else enjoy being alone a little TOO...
Finally asked a girl out today (17 M)
2078 Finally asked a girl out today (17 M)
Every time I go outside my social comfort zone,...
2030 Every time I go outside my social comfort zone,...
Does anyone here spend a lot of their time alon...
1954 Does anyone here spend a lot of their time alon...
I (30M) feel confident enough when meeting peop...
1941 I (30M) feel confident enough when meeting peop...
I genuinely enjoy being alone, but I feel very ...
1594 I genuinely enjoy being alone, but I feel very ...
Guy called me ugly but said my body compensates...
1487 Guy called me ugly but said my body compensates...
Why Am I the bad person if i start to give back...
1479 Why Am I the bad person if i start to give back...
is it cruel to do volunteering solely in order ...
1459 is it cruel to do volunteering solely in order ...