/r/socialskills - top ten submissions for each month of 2026

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2026, July
How do charismatic people make even the most or...
1233 How do charismatic people make even the most or...
The skill that saved my oldest friendship wasnt...
1157 The skill that saved my oldest friendship wasnt...
Firefighters saved me from a stalker, would it ...
1084 Firefighters saved me from a stalker, would it ...
does anyone struggle with not having the mental...
657 does anyone struggle with not having the mental...
Is it just me or is introducing people to each ...
588 Is it just me or is introducing people to each ...
Confidence is basically being okay with messing up
530 Confidence is basically being okay with messing up
When did you realize you're actually insufferable?
512 When did you realize you're actually insufferable?
A lot of people seem to think I’m dumb, it’s re...
460 A lot of people seem to think I’m dumb, it’s re...
How do I stop getting quietly excluded from fri...
413 How do I stop getting quietly excluded from fri...
How do you go about being social if you are a f...
369 How do you go about being social if you are a f...
2026, June
Update: It's ok for me to go into the same coff...
1144 Update: It's ok for me to go into the same coff...
Walked up to a group of people at a party and a...
930 Walked up to a group of people at a party and a...
How to Accidentally Become the Main Character i...
706 How to Accidentally Become the Main Character i...
People like me because I listen to their storie...
693 People like me because I listen to their storie...
So it actually happened to me – someone I haven...
651 So it actually happened to me – someone I haven...
I accidentally said ‘you look tired’ to my manager
490 I accidentally said ‘you look tired’ to my manager
A man is making me uncomfortable at church and ...
471 A man is making me uncomfortable at church and ...
My ability to speak is declining. Any Tips?
459 My ability to speak is declining. Any Tips?
How do I become quicker at thinking on the spot...
450 How do I become quicker at thinking on the spot...
Confronting someone face to face when they're b...
429 Confronting someone face to face when they're b...
2026, May
why don’t people ask questions back
1076 why don’t people ask questions back
How does a person become fun again?
758 How does a person become fun again?
What’s the point of trying to be social as an a...
571 What’s the point of trying to be social as an a...
We are “that person” to somebody. It’s a given.
496 We are “that person” to somebody. It’s a given.
Why do the worst people always end up with the ...
466 Why do the worst people always end up with the ...
How to politely tell people that you know more ...
394 How to politely tell people that you know more ...
Can people sense low self esteem?
348 Can people sense low self esteem?
Is it normal to be socially awkward in your ear...
310 Is it normal to be socially awkward in your ear...
What does it mean if you genuinely have nothing...
294 What does it mean if you genuinely have nothing...
How the hell do people find something to consta...
280 How the hell do people find something to consta...
2026, April
Replacing "let me know if you need anything" wi...
2634 Replacing "let me know if you need anything" wi...
Hobbies aren't a great place to meet adults??
750 Hobbies aren't a great place to meet adults??
Why does socializing come so naturally to chari...
693 Why does socializing come so naturally to chari...
The #1 Tip that will change your entire life
659 The #1 Tip that will change your entire life
I’m a gen z starer
624 I’m a gen z starer
I finally understand small talk and how it can ...
509 I finally understand small talk and how it can ...
Is being ‘too nice’ actually a social disadvant...
428 Is being ‘too nice’ actually a social disadvant...
Depressed after hanging out with people
419 Depressed after hanging out with people
How to professionally tell a coworker to stop t...
415 How to professionally tell a coworker to stop t...
How do I tell the woman who works out at my apa...
374 How do I tell the woman who works out at my apa...
2026, March
I recently realized I’m the person who never le...
1046 I recently realized I’m the person who never le...
28M and I feel like I arrived too late to socia...
956 28M and I feel like I arrived too late to socia...
Have you ever disliked someone that everyone el...
912 Have you ever disliked someone that everyone el...
Can I straight up say "I don't have friends"?
564 Can I straight up say "I don't have friends"?
How to actually become a likeable person
521 How to actually become a likeable person
How do I make up for lost years of social isola...
522 How do I make up for lost years of social isola...
moving away made me realize how insignificant i am
487 moving away made me realize how insignificant i am
I’m smarter in my head than I sound out loud.
490 I’m smarter in my head than I sound out loud.
I posted here asking what makes people good at ...
481 I posted here asking what makes people good at ...
What should a man do if a girl starts crying in...
442 What should a man do if a girl starts crying in...
2026, February
Ive been trying for a couple years. Is it okay ...
1183 Ive been trying for a couple years. Is it okay ...
How did you accept you’re just not a likable pe...
1124 How did you accept you’re just not a likable pe...
How to politely get guests out of your house?
1086 How to politely get guests out of your house?
Your Relationship With Yourself Sets the Standa...
854 Your Relationship With Yourself Sets the Standa...
Lost my job because I don't talk/communicate en...
654 Lost my job because I don't talk/communicate en...
i finally realized why all my conversations fel...
627 i finally realized why all my conversations fel...
How do I decline hanging out with a murderer?
513 How do I decline hanging out with a murderer?
For the shy people out there
425 For the shy people out there
I don’t understand what I did wrong. V-day rest...
403 I don’t understand what I did wrong. V-day rest...
How do you actually set boundaries with "chroni...
392 How do you actually set boundaries with "chroni...
2026, January
What’s an unspoken social rule you learned way ...
1307 What’s an unspoken social rule you learned way ...
Is it normal to feel “socially underdeveloped” ...
1145 Is it normal to feel “socially underdeveloped” ...
I don't really want to be friends with someone ...
817 I don't really want to be friends with someone ...
Hung out with a close friend of mine for 3 hour...
698 Hung out with a close friend of mine for 3 hour...
Anyone else feel like they're a "safe haven" fo...
689 Anyone else feel like they're a "safe haven" fo...
What makes people slowly lose respect for someo...
669 What makes people slowly lose respect for someo...
I think most people cannot seem to hold a conve...
628 I think most people cannot seem to hold a conve...
No longer eloquent/articulate
610 No longer eloquent/articulate
I've learned the REAL reason why it's hard to m...
576 I've learned the REAL reason why it's hard to m...
I never found my people. Do some people just ne...
532 I never found my people. Do some people just ne...